Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 2009-09-13 14:13.
You only get to *draw lines* for yourself.
You have no right to draw lines for others, and it doesn't matter if you don't understand it.
Each person gets to run their life and their relationships as they wish.
Personally, I believe I'd be of the jealous nature.
I've only been married once, for 26 years.
Fortunately my wife and I are of similar mindset in this regard.
I'm pretty certain that if she had an affair I'd leave her, but I don't know for sure, depends I suppose.
If I had it to do over again I wouldn't get married under the rules of the state for its none of their business, but I would set it up like a business contract with all of the details outlined.
Drawing Invisible Lines for Other People
You only get to *draw lines* for yourself.
You have no right to draw lines for others, and it doesn't matter if you don't understand it.
Each person gets to run their life and their relationships as they wish.
Personally, I believe I'd be of the jealous nature.
I've only been married once, for 26 years.
Fortunately my wife and I are of similar mindset in this regard.
I'm pretty certain that if she had an affair I'd leave her, but I don't know for sure, depends I suppose.
If I had it to do over again I wouldn't get married under the rules of the state for its none of their business, but I would set it up like a business contract with all of the details outlined.